I've been on the quest for financial security for many years now. I've read books, blogs, watched experts on t.v. and the internet in the attempt to gather as much knowledge as possible to help me change my ways. Nothing has worked :( I've continued to spend, spend, spend and procrastinate on bill paying because I haven't wanted to admit that I couldn't afford what I wanted (throughout this post, when I write "I", I really mean "we"). I'm the financial manager of the family. In fact, my poor husband never sees a penny of his paycheck. So, it really is all up to me how this family survives. I know, all the experts say that your partner MUST be involved with the finances to make things work. But, truely, my husband doesn't need to be involved because he doesn't spend any of the money. He NEVER writes checks or uses the ATM, and, if he needs something, he gets it from me. ANYWAY, I have decided that THIS is the year to get our financial situation into shape. I'm currently reading Suze Orman's new book "Suze Orman's 2009 Action Plan" that I downloaded FREE from Oprah.com. And I've realized that the first thing to do is get caught up on our bills. Stop paying them late! I mostly do this on credit card bills because I pay the necessities first. We do have 6 credit cards BUT we no longer charge on them. SO, I've been starting to get caught up on paying everything on time and that is affecting the way I do other things.
In my effort to get caught up, I made several choices this week that are vastly different than I would have made in the past and I want to celebrate the fact that I'm starting to think differently! The first decision I made this week surrounded around a Christmas gift for my son. He had asked for a certain soundtrack for Christmas. I ordered it online but was told it was back ordered until January 11. I told him this before Christmas and he was ok with that. Lo and behold, Jan. 11 rolls around and the company I ordered it from emails me and tells me that the soundtrack is no longer available :( My son said he saw a copy of the soundtrack at Barnes & Noble at Jordan Creek Mall in Des Moines on our last trip to visit my sister. My son wants to head down to Des Moines (a 2 hour trip - one way ~ we usually end up staying overnight at my sister's) this Saturday. Now, in the past, I would have giving anything to 'get away' on Saturday and see my sis. BUT, the new me decided that I should just call the store at Jordan Creek Mall and see if they would be willing to send it to us, saving us the cost of gas, eating out and probably finding a few 'extras' at the mall that we didn't need. Not only would they send it to me, but there was no shipping charge because it was over a certain amount and qualified for FREE shipping! Cha-ching! I just can't tell you what a triumph that is for me....silly, I know, but HUGE for me! :)
The second smart financial decision I made has to do with my online business. Normally, I rack up seller fees for a month at a time and then take the money to pay the fees out of my husband's check when he gets paid. I use the money I make online for 'fun' money ~ things for myself, the kids, the house or to go "do" things that cost money). Well, this month, when I made the amount of money in sales that would cover the cost of the fees, I PAID THEM! Another HUGE step for me!
The third smart financial decision I made happened today...and it's similar to the first in that I needed a new printer cartridge for my computer. I initially told the family that we were all going to load up the car and head over to the nearest Target (40 miles away ~ the only store anywhere near us where I can buy that kind of printer cartridge). This would mean lunch out for the four of us, plus those darn "extras" that none of us needs! Instead, I got online and ordered the printer cartridge. Shipping was $10.50 but still A LOT cheaper than eating out, etc.
I'm not posting this just to pat myself on the back, I'm posting it as a reminder to myself that I CAN do it and I want to continue to make good decisions like this to get my family's financial situation in better shape.
God bless ~ Thrifty Gal